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We always talk about "winning" or "losing" a dispute. Too often we forget that the simplest way to "win"  is just to avoid conflict situations. We can be persuasive, charismatic, influential, without participating in a fight.
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Attract the sympathy of those around
Honesty is the best policy. Cultivate your interest in those around you by focusing on yourself. If you have an appropriate staff, you will realize that even the most trivial person has something to say and can give you a life lesson. 
Learn to ask the right questions.

Smile!
Remember that name of who you talk is the sweetest and most beautiful word you know and that he will enjoy every time you say it.
Learn to listen! Encourage the others to talk about them.
Make them to feel important. Show that you know interests and you can empathize with them. 
 
You can win someone on your side
Remember that the greatest gain that you can get from a dispute is to avoid it.
Respect other's opinions. We never say "You 're wrong / You were wrong / It's stupid what you say.
Admit your mistake, if necessary. 
Begin in a friendly manner.
Leave the other to say as much.
When you Discuss with the partner try to create the feeling that the idea actually belonged to his / her.
Try honestly to put yourself in the shoes of another. You will be amazed by how much you can discover if empathize a little.
Draws attention to mistakes indirectly (by listing the consequences, for example).
Admit your own mistakes before criticizing someone else.
Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
Praise improvements when they occur, no matter how small. People need very high approval and praise.
Encourage!